This is going to be a short entry. For the longest time, society has deemed mental health issues to be less important than physical, or even spiritual issues. When one is sick, one goes to a physician. When you are spiritually hurting, you pray, or go to your member of the clergy. But when one... Continue Reading →

I I'm confused, not sure why. He's not my, type of guy. But when I gaze at his face My heart will race I'm so confused. He's too brash, digs the scene. I'm too smart, kind of mean. While  he has a heart of gold, I'm much too cold. I'm still confused. I want him,... Continue Reading →

I was swimming a couple of days ago at my gym's pool, and I saw someone drowning. They were moving gracefully in the water, and then something happened. There was a lot of thrashing, arms flailing and the like, so animated that all of in the pool turned to look him. To be honest, it... Continue Reading →

Lately my blog entries have could be accurately described as a jeremiad- a long, mournful complaint or lamentation; a list of woes. I think that's pretty accurate, wouldn't you say?  These past two weeks, I've been through a lot, have had a lot of illusions shattered, and come to realize that I need to work on... Continue Reading →

I miss my friend's chats at nightI miss the long talks, telling each other our darkest secrets and innermost thoughts.I miss having a friend to go to karaoke with.I miss teaching someone to sing and practicing.I miss our shared bond and agreement on love and romance.I miss long car rides.I don't miss the flakinessI don't... Continue Reading →

I've been going through a very rough patch which has in its roots the fact that life is incredibly unfair and it's not like Burger King-you don't get it your way.And I know that life is unfair. I'm under no illusions about that. I just wish that sometimes, it would go my way when I'd... Continue Reading →

Why Can't Some People Just Learn to Shut Up ( April 1999)In the world there are people who just have to yap, But you'd love if their mouths took a really long nap. I don't mean Dimitri or Ward, or Michelle, 'Cause when I'm talking to them, all is swell!My life is ebullient, my joy effervescent!I give off more... Continue Reading →

I wish that I understood how love and romance works.I wish it were as easy as comparing a list of qualities on a sheet of paper or a computer screen and checking off what you both have in common and seeing if enough stuff matches up so you could date.I wish there was an algorithm... Continue Reading →

I wrote this YEARS ago, but found it relevant. It's all about common courtesy. But before we get to that...I'm going to share with you a tidbit that is going to rock your world. And that tidbit is this...“You’re wrong as the deuce, and you shouldn’t rejoice. If you’re calling him Seuss – he pronounces... Continue Reading →